What is the definition of respect? Well, respect equals to esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability.

It's not only the guy/girl, It can be anyone. All of us must have respect for each other. Respect for yourself, family, elderly, friends, man-made creations, and everything that we can think about. And the most important thing of all, we must learn how to respect each other's decisions.

Doesn't mean the world is changing, and it's heading towards a new era, everybody's also changing until they forget on how to respect human beings. This is indeed the problem running through in our community today. Especially with the guys nowadays (we did not say that the girls do not play any role in this problem). We will elaborate more when we start sharing about it.

This incident just happened to one of us recently. Here it goes ...

I just woke up from sleep when i received few messages. I looked through my phone, and i saw one message that came from an unknown number, and the rest were from my friends. Since the message from the unknown sender looked kinda amazing to me, i ignored other messages and gave my full attention to that particular message.

"Hey. Can i get to know you?" That's the message i received from that unknown sender. I was shocked. I recently changed my number, so where on earth did he get it from?. Although my mind is fully occupied with questions, i managed to laugh because the way how that unknown sender text me seemed so funny. Even if you wanna get to know me, be more creative. He must have been an old-fashion guy. But anyways, i replied him back just to get my doubts answered.

In a blink of an eye, he replied me. (Identification of this guy will not be revealed.) He told me his name was 'Mat'. And since i dont have any friends by the name of 'Mat', i keep on pressuring him with questions. After getting fed-up with me pressuring him with questions, he told me the truth. He said he wanna be friends with me. Well, the reason of making friends with me was still kinda acceptable, so i continued texting him. The first few was going smoothly, until this guy requested me to have sex with him.

I acted stupidly when he asked me, "Wanna play?" I replied, "What you wanna play?" And he replied, "Don't act as if you don't know. I knew you know, but you're acting as if you don't." Since i was very pissed off, i straight away fucked him with those vulgarities.

I said to him, "What type of girl do you think i am? Those cheap girls where you can find easily on the streets at night? Don't you feel ashame asking me for sex? Where's your dignity as a guy? Where did you actually put you shameless face? If you're really horny, it's not me who can satisfy you. Such a cheap guy!"

And i thought after saying those harsh words to him, he would not wanna reply me. So, when im happily chatting online with my friends, i received another message from him.

He said, "What's there to be ashame off? You're still stucked in the 60's if you're still talking about shame. Now, everybody is bad. Everybody doesn't know the meaning of 'shame'. The world is changing, babe. C'mon, don't make yourself sound like those aunties in the 60's."

Getting too pissed off, i replied him back saying, "So, this means you respresent those bad people out there? No wonder most of the youngsters now lost their virginity at a very young age. It's all because of you? You are indeed the most shameless guy that i ever texted with."

The one who passed my number is my own friend. Who says your own friend can't backstab you? Sometimes your closest friend around you can be your own enemy. Don't believe us? Well, the experience aboved already proved that my own friend is actually my enemy. Well, im not going to make myself sound bad for what im going to type next. Even though i dyed my hair blonde, and has piercing all over my body, has alot of guy friends and im into night life, does not mean that im those girls that you guys can fish easily.

We're trying to make our sentence as inoffensive as possible. If these kind of guys dared saying such things to girls, we wonder how did they interact with their mother, who is maybe not a girl, but a woman. If some of those guys doesn't have the respect for us, how did they respect their mothers, which has the same gender as us?

Guys, put yourself in this situation. Lets not use mothers as an example, lets use your own sister instead. How or what will you feel if your sister is being treated that way? We bet you must be f****** mad. Your sisters isn't that cheap. They're not those '3 for $10' girls who guys can easily make use of them.

Always be aware of these kind of guys around us. You will never know that the guy hanging around you actually falls into this category. Girls, we have dignity and pride. Don't let guys make use of us as if we're cheap products. We girls are not stupid. But sometimes, we are stupid enough to let guys treat us this way.

So, what's your say?

The world is changing, and so are the people. Today, there are no such thing as 'good guys' or 'good girls'. Even if there are, it's only left with approximately 25%. True enough? We did say approximately, so we are not saying it's really 25%.

So, for our very first post, we’re gonna talk about guys/girls who goes around searching for the outer beauty (be it the body size, the face, the appearance, etc) instead of the inner beauty when it comes to finding friendship or relationship. Sounds very interesting. We're sure this is happening to you, you, and also you.

Yes, who doesn't want a perfect partner? Someone as gorgeous as 'your dream girl' for guys, and someone as charming as 'your dream boy' for girls. You're telling lies if you disagree with us. It's quite emberassing if your partner/friend doesn't have the looks. Even for us, we felt the same way too. You rather keep your friend/partner at home than bringing them out to socialize with your family, friends, relatives, and even the public because like we said, it's quite emberassing. But when it comes to friendship nowadays, many still prioritise outer beauty rather than inner beauty, which we find it such a turn off.

Don’t laugh because we believe this problem must have happen to each and everyone of us. You're lying again if you say 'No'. Since we've ever experience this situation before, we really understand what it feels to get rejected or even get ditched because we simply didn't meet that someone standards.

Well, one of the main purpose of this blog is to share both of our experience(s) to everybody out there. Be it happy or sad or whatever you guys can think about. We want all of us to learn so that we won't commit the same mistake in future. The experience that we're about to share happened to one of us before. And shockingly, not only once, but for so many times.

Here it goes ...

Okay, i admit that i don’t have the body that make guys go “Gaga”. And honestly, i tend to go for looks at times, but not all the time. Because i know im not that pretty to go for someone who is perfect. I know where i stand.

I ever did a researched before. I went to an online chat room and started knowing this particular guy from there. After introducing ourselves to each other, we moved over to MSN. The conversation was going smoothly until the guy asked for my picture. I told him that i'm not using my laptop and i don’t have any picture stored inside the computer im using. Then, the guy asked for my height and weight. So i told the guy that im 1.45m tall, and im 99kg heavy. That was absolutely not true but what did i get from the guy? He just went offline without replying anything to me.

I ever met a guy i knew from Tagged.com. As usual, we chatted over at MSN. This time round, there’s pictures of me at my Tagged profile so he didn't asked for it. From Tagged, we chatted over at MSN, and from there, we exchanged contact numbers because it's easier to contact each other rather than by contacting through MSN. Until one day, this guy wanna meet me.

I told him i was fat and ugly so that he wont feel shy when he meets me later, and he told me that he isn't the kind who doesn't go for looks. He even said that it's very wrong going for looks when it comes to finding a friend. Well, i kinda trusted his words and i agreed on meeting him. He's not that handsome afterall, not even the average kind of look. We talked, and not long after that (which is less than an hour), he told me that he needs to make a move. I didn't care because at first i thought of doing the same thing to him.

Few days after our meeting, i tried texting him. I was very shocked when i read his reply. He asked me who am i? Then I replied him back saying, “You are not what you say.” But again, i didn't care. I don't lose anything for not getting the chance to be friends with him.

So, what’s the conclusion that we can get from here? People still tend to go for outer beauty when it comes to finding friendship. Be it the guy/girl. We believe that both of them are the same. But whatever it is, don't go frust when we say everyone goes for looks because we believe that everyone is not exactly the same. Going for looks, is there really a need for that? What's your say?