Does he likes me?
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Relationships can be complicated business. It is often difficult to be sure of your own feelings much less your partners. There is no sure way to know if a man likes you, but there are hints. Sometimes it's hard to tell if he has any interest in you at all. With this challenge in mind, here are some pointers for more accurately gauging a man's romantic interest:

1) Hey may be courteous, but not curious.

- Some men may be well-mannered and show this by remembering your name, making eye contact, engaging in small talk, being an attentive listener, and asking questions with apparent sincere interest. But this may only be an indicator of courtesy, emotional maturity, or good human relations skills. While all these positive things are helpful in creating a friendly atmosphere, it would be unwise for you to jump to the conclusion that the man is actually interested in a romanctic way. It may simply be a case of a more refined, civilized man acting in a courteous manner towards you as a person. Don't mistake these as signals that a guy likes you.

2) Hey may be curious, but not actually be interested or even likes you.

- Sometimes you will run across a man who expresses a lot of curiosity in the way he asks questions, gives you his full attention, and keeps his eyes riveted on you. But these behaviors don't automatically mean that the man is interested in dating you or that he has developed any feelings of affection towards you. He may just find you to be interesting looking or he may be already involved with another woman and this is his one seemingly harmless way of enjoying the variety of other women in a detached, non-threatening way. Sure, these may be signs of attraction, but before you assume anything, we want to be sure.

3) Hey may like you some, but not enough to risk the pressure of rejection.

- A man may have positive feelings for you, but those feelings aren't strong enough or clear enough at this point to make the effort of pursuing you aggressively. It could be that the circumstances of his life make it much easier and less painful to just let this romantic opportunity pass. Perhaps he feels the competition for you is too stiff, that you're already involved with another man, or that you don't think very highly of him. In any case, the guy figures that it's just not worth the hassle to pursue you and feel the pressure of a possible rejection. On the other hand, if a man starts asking around with your mutual acquaintances about you, then that may be his way of gathering all the facts before making his big calculated move towards asking you out. This could be considered one of the sure signs a guy likes you.

Is he showing you any of the signs as stated on all the 4 posts? If he did, good luck.

Is your girlfriend using you?
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Whether you agree to this or not, using somebody equals to cheating. Finding out that a girlfriend has cheated on you is never an easy thing to deal with. Feelings get hurt and tempers often run high. Being cheated on is not an easy thing to get over, however some couples do and they learn from their mistakes.

Cheating happens to the best of us. Even if it hasn't happened to you, you might be wondering if your girlfriend or even your boyfriend is about to cheat. Here are some thoughts on cheating and some clues that the person you're with may not be totally faithful.

First of all, try not to panic. Sometimes a fear that your girlfriend is cheating is actually your own insecurity about the relationship or just yourself. Ask this to yourself, "If she loves me, why would she cheat? What's her motive of making use of me?" Take some time to think about these things before trying to figure out if your girlfriend has been unfaithful.

1) Being overly defensive.

- Sometimes cheating partners will take out their anger and frustration on the person they are being unfaithful to. Be aware of when your girlfriend starts to pick fights with you, or accuses you of strange behaviors from out of the blue to deflect their own actions.

2) Hiding behaviours.

- Frequent phone hang-ups, or quickly keeping her handphone when she's halfway messaging somebody when you walk by may all be signs of a cheating partner.

3) Sudden unavailability.

- If you've been able to get a hold of your girlfriend when you're in camp serving NS or Reservist or whatever before, then if you suddenly cannot, there is reason to be concerned. The same goes for having their phone off for long periods of time or leaving it unanswered when this previously happened rarely, or being unavailable to attend social events or make dates that were commonplace at one point in time.

Are they showing you these 3 signs? If they do, higher chances that they're just making use of you. Maybe letting you be one of their pass time, or perhaps they are just after your money. If you're still unsure about this, sit down and talk with your girlfriend before jumping to any conclusions.

So, what's your say?