What is the definition of respect? Well, respect equals to esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability.

It's not only the guy/girl, It can be anyone. All of us must have respect for each other. Respect for yourself, family, elderly, friends, man-made creations, and everything that we can think about. And the most important thing of all, we must learn how to respect each other's decisions.

Doesn't mean the world is changing, and it's heading towards a new era, everybody's also changing until they forget on how to respect human beings. This is indeed the problem running through in our community today. Especially with the guys nowadays (we did not say that the girls do not play any role in this problem). We will elaborate more when we start sharing about it.

This incident just happened to one of us recently. Here it goes ...

I just woke up from sleep when i received few messages. I looked through my phone, and i saw one message that came from an unknown number, and the rest were from my friends. Since the message from the unknown sender looked kinda amazing to me, i ignored other messages and gave my full attention to that particular message.

"Hey. Can i get to know you?" That's the message i received from that unknown sender. I was shocked. I recently changed my number, so where on earth did he get it from?. Although my mind is fully occupied with questions, i managed to laugh because the way how that unknown sender text me seemed so funny. Even if you wanna get to know me, be more creative. He must have been an old-fashion guy. But anyways, i replied him back just to get my doubts answered.

In a blink of an eye, he replied me. (Identification of this guy will not be revealed.) He told me his name was 'Mat'. And since i dont have any friends by the name of 'Mat', i keep on pressuring him with questions. After getting fed-up with me pressuring him with questions, he told me the truth. He said he wanna be friends with me. Well, the reason of making friends with me was still kinda acceptable, so i continued texting him. The first few was going smoothly, until this guy requested me to have sex with him.

I acted stupidly when he asked me, "Wanna play?" I replied, "What you wanna play?" And he replied, "Don't act as if you don't know. I knew you know, but you're acting as if you don't." Since i was very pissed off, i straight away fucked him with those vulgarities.

I said to him, "What type of girl do you think i am? Those cheap girls where you can find easily on the streets at night? Don't you feel ashame asking me for sex? Where's your dignity as a guy? Where did you actually put you shameless face? If you're really horny, it's not me who can satisfy you. Such a cheap guy!"

And i thought after saying those harsh words to him, he would not wanna reply me. So, when im happily chatting online with my friends, i received another message from him.

He said, "What's there to be ashame off? You're still stucked in the 60's if you're still talking about shame. Now, everybody is bad. Everybody doesn't know the meaning of 'shame'. The world is changing, babe. C'mon, don't make yourself sound like those aunties in the 60's."

Getting too pissed off, i replied him back saying, "So, this means you respresent those bad people out there? No wonder most of the youngsters now lost their virginity at a very young age. It's all because of you? You are indeed the most shameless guy that i ever texted with."

The one who passed my number is my own friend. Who says your own friend can't backstab you? Sometimes your closest friend around you can be your own enemy. Don't believe us? Well, the experience aboved already proved that my own friend is actually my enemy. Well, im not going to make myself sound bad for what im going to type next. Even though i dyed my hair blonde, and has piercing all over my body, has alot of guy friends and im into night life, does not mean that im those girls that you guys can fish easily.

We're trying to make our sentence as inoffensive as possible. If these kind of guys dared saying such things to girls, we wonder how did they interact with their mother, who is maybe not a girl, but a woman. If some of those guys doesn't have the respect for us, how did they respect their mothers, which has the same gender as us?

Guys, put yourself in this situation. Lets not use mothers as an example, lets use your own sister instead. How or what will you feel if your sister is being treated that way? We bet you must be f****** mad. Your sisters isn't that cheap. They're not those '3 for $10' girls who guys can easily make use of them.

Always be aware of these kind of guys around us. You will never know that the guy hanging around you actually falls into this category. Girls, we have dignity and pride. Don't let guys make use of us as if we're cheap products. We girls are not stupid. But sometimes, we are stupid enough to let guys treat us this way.

So, what's your say?