Wednesday, January 20, 2010


It's his/her fault! Why must I forgive him/her? I don't lose anything if i didn't get to be friends with him/her! Tell him/her to f*** off! I won't forget what he/she has done to me!

My oh my, quarrels quarrels quarrels. This is normal in friendship and even relationship. But once you said you do not lose out without a friend like her/him, something is really wrong here. This post is going to be about friendship. Hard to forgive a friend for something she/he had done? Feel like fucking her/him upside down? Feel like giving her/him a tight slap or kick her/his ass?

No no. If you're a good friend, you won't do anything of the above mentioned.

  • First thing first, doesn't mean you're forgiving your friend, it meant you're being so nice that your friend thinks they can easily make a fool out of you. Forgiving also doesn't mean you approve what they did wrongly towards you. Instead, tell them nicely the reason why you're offended by their actions. At the very least they'll open up their eyes and finally realise their mistake. Don't ever assume that they realise or aware of the mistakes they make when they don't even notice they've unknowingly offend you. So, open up your mouth and have a talk with them.

  • Don't ignore them or be arrogant towards them. They're trying to ask for forgiveness, so stop being so 'hard to get'!

  • Remember their STRENGTHS, not their WEAKNESSES. Just try to recall the times they've helped you out when you're in need. Recall their deeds rather than their wrong-doings towards you.

  • If you can't accept their forgiveness face-to-face, it meant you've not fully forgiven them. Make an effort to listen to what they have to say. If you still can't face them, what's the point of owning a handphone or MSN? Just let out your feelings. Let them know how you really feel.

  • Just think. If the friendship between the both parties are to return to normal. How great won't it be? Sharing secrets together again, laugh together again, do crazy things together again. Don't you miss all that? Don't be filled with ego. Don't ever say you don't need them in your life. Deep in your heart, you still want to befriend with them.
Remember, your friend is a human-being like you. Everyone makes mistakes. Even you. What's so difficult in forgiving them? If you want them to be a good friend, you should also play a part in being a good friend too. Respect them if you want to be respected. In conclusion, EVERYONE NEEDS FRIENDS IN THEIR LIFE. Don't waste friendship just because of your ego. It's not worth it.

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