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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Sex, Making out. I've just ended up my phone conversation with my dearest girlfriend. Kinda pity her though. Her ex recently dumped her. And they've been together for about 5 months. What a waste. When asked, my girlfriend told me that they broke off because she's unwilling to make out with him. Hmm. This is another difficult yet interesting topic. I wonder. Is it a MUST to have sex/make-out with your partner when both of you are in a relationship? There's no right or wrong reasons to it. Some agreed, and some disagree. If you are asking me, i detest it as well. Why? Why did i detest? I do have strong points for detest-ing. What's the purpose for being in a relationship? It's because both of you are meant to be together (even if the relationship does not last for so long), both of you have chemistry, and most importantly, both of you care and love each other so much. That's why both of you decided to build a relationship together. When you're already in a relationship, what can you do to prevent the both of you from drifting apart? What can you do to make your relationship grew even more stronger? What can you do to increase your care and love for each other? What's the point of the both of you having the same chemistry if you did not make any effort to spend time together in activities both of you enjoyed doing? Wait, you get what i mean? What im trying to say is, there's lots of healthy activities for you to do rather than you get yourself involved in unhealthy activities. What im actually referring to is, sex/making out. What's the meaning of love? Love means "to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person". What's the meaning of care? Care means "to feel concern about someone". So, when you love someone, it means that you have a profoundly tender or passionate affection for him/her. And when you care for someone, it means that you feel concern about him/her. Spare 5-10 minutes of your time to think about this. (All my points are from my own experience.) 1. If a guy really loves you, even if they have a chance, will they do something funny to you (sex/making out)? No right? Instead, they will not try, but they will always AVOID themselves from doing so. 2. If a guy do respect you, he wont go around asking you questions like, "B, do you love me? If you do, lets make out okay?" Or whatever dialouges that guys uses to get their needs satisfied. Yes, she loves you. But, there's limits. Girls, if you happen to have a relationship with this kind of guys, better be safe than sorry. 3. Lets say that guy is really sincere to have a relationship with you, bringing him to meet both of your parents (even if the both of you are only friends) is sure a "no problem" thing right? Trust me, a guy who is sincere with you wont have any doubts to meet your parents. Atleast, if it's not both your parents, either one will do. (And i really mean parents. Not your friends/neighbours/sisters/brothers/cousins.) 4. Lets say that guy is really into you, he won't feels 'shy' whenever you asked him to hang around with your friends or when you wanted to hang around with his company. Instead, he will make use of this chance to introduce you to his company/to get to know your friends. Have you thought about it? Im not saying that guys play a huge role in this. I ever heard of stories from my guyfriends that it's their girlfriends who wanted sex/making out with them. I was so shocked when they told me that. My bad for having this kind of perception towards guys. So, what's your say? |
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