The world is changing, and so are the people. Today, there are no such thing as 'good guys' or 'good girls'. Even if there are, it's only left with approximately 25%. True enough? We did say approximately, so we are not saying it's really 25%.

So, for our very first post, we’re gonna talk about guys/girls who goes around searching for the outer beauty (be it the body size, the face, the appearance, etc) instead of the inner beauty when it comes to finding friendship or relationship. Sounds very interesting. We're sure this is happening to you, you, and also you.

Yes, who doesn't want a perfect partner? Someone as gorgeous as 'your dream girl' for guys, and someone as charming as 'your dream boy' for girls. You're telling lies if you disagree with us. It's quite emberassing if your partner/friend doesn't have the looks. Even for us, we felt the same way too. You rather keep your friend/partner at home than bringing them out to socialize with your family, friends, relatives, and even the public because like we said, it's quite emberassing. But when it comes to friendship nowadays, many still prioritise outer beauty rather than inner beauty, which we find it such a turn off.

Don’t laugh because we believe this problem must have happen to each and everyone of us. You're lying again if you say 'No'. Since we've ever experience this situation before, we really understand what it feels to get rejected or even get ditched because we simply didn't meet that someone standards.

Well, one of the main purpose of this blog is to share both of our experience(s) to everybody out there. Be it happy or sad or whatever you guys can think about. We want all of us to learn so that we won't commit the same mistake in future. The experience that we're about to share happened to one of us before. And shockingly, not only once, but for so many times.

Here it goes ...

Okay, i admit that i don’t have the body that make guys go “Gaga”. And honestly, i tend to go for looks at times, but not all the time. Because i know im not that pretty to go for someone who is perfect. I know where i stand.

I ever did a researched before. I went to an online chat room and started knowing this particular guy from there. After introducing ourselves to each other, we moved over to MSN. The conversation was going smoothly until the guy asked for my picture. I told him that i'm not using my laptop and i don’t have any picture stored inside the computer im using. Then, the guy asked for my height and weight. So i told the guy that im 1.45m tall, and im 99kg heavy. That was absolutely not true but what did i get from the guy? He just went offline without replying anything to me.

I ever met a guy i knew from Tagged.com. As usual, we chatted over at MSN. This time round, there’s pictures of me at my Tagged profile so he didn't asked for it. From Tagged, we chatted over at MSN, and from there, we exchanged contact numbers because it's easier to contact each other rather than by contacting through MSN. Until one day, this guy wanna meet me.

I told him i was fat and ugly so that he wont feel shy when he meets me later, and he told me that he isn't the kind who doesn't go for looks. He even said that it's very wrong going for looks when it comes to finding a friend. Well, i kinda trusted his words and i agreed on meeting him. He's not that handsome afterall, not even the average kind of look. We talked, and not long after that (which is less than an hour), he told me that he needs to make a move. I didn't care because at first i thought of doing the same thing to him.

Few days after our meeting, i tried texting him. I was very shocked when i read his reply. He asked me who am i? Then I replied him back saying, “You are not what you say.” But again, i didn't care. I don't lose anything for not getting the chance to be friends with him.

So, what’s the conclusion that we can get from here? People still tend to go for outer beauty when it comes to finding friendship. Be it the guy/girl. We believe that both of them are the same. But whatever it is, don't go frust when we say everyone goes for looks because we believe that everyone is not exactly the same. Going for looks, is there really a need for that? What's your say?