You want to talk on the phone with him..
Her: I'll call you back. Im on the line with my girlfriend.
(But she never calls back.)

You want to have an all-girls day out on that day..
Her: Can i bring my boyfriend along? I will miss him if i don't get to meet him today.

When you had an all-girls day out without her Mat..
Her: Gosh, i miss him. I can't take it anymore. *Starts to cry*
(They've just met few hours ago.)

Have you faced situations like these? It's like their life is only about their boyfriends and girlfriends. But really, we should learn how to balance between our boyfriend/girlfriend and our friends well. Face it, teens love life don't last long till marriage. Only a small percentage do but the majority? We musn't deny the fact that we need friends in our life. If you concentrate on your partner and fully neglect your friends, where will you stand? You're just nothing without them.

So, what's your say?
Jangan nak happy-happy dengan mataer abeh lupa kawan. Tapi bila dah break, nanges-nanges, sedih-sedih, baru nak carik korang nye kawan balik. Bila dah dapat matair baru, the cycle goes on. It's okay to prioritise korang nye matair but when your friends wants to spend time with you alone, then consider their feelings too. Bukan nak cakap matair korang ni menyebok ke ape, but sometimes we really need to catch up with things so your friendship bond will still be strong.

Get the drift to what I'm saying? To summarise it, friends still play an important role in our lifes. Appreciate them and learn to balance your friends and boyfriend/girlfriend well. (;