Sunday, January 24, 2010

Guys using you.

You logged in Tagged and received a message. A guy asked for your MSN. Before you decide to give your MSN, you browse his pictures and mumble to yourself, "Awww, this guy is cute. No harm giving him my MSN." And so you guys started chatting. After what you felt like you already knew him for a long time, he asked for your number. You didn't think twice and blindly gave him your number.

You guys texted for a few hours until he brought up the topic about meeting up. You are okay with it so both of you decided to meet up the next day. After chilling around for a few hours, he suddenly brought up the topic of making out. He started sitting very close to you and started kissing you. Seeing that he's 'very cute' to you, you didn't mind and continue with it.

After that day, he is still in contact with you. But whenever he asked you out, he never fails of wanting to make out with you. But the question of being officially together were never brought up. You realised it's wrong to do all this as both of you are not officially together. But he gave excuses he's not able to be with you because he has to concentrate on his studies/career. Instead, he told you not to worry because he has feelings for you and it's not wrong to make out.

After awhile, whenever he wanted to make out, you backed out and stood up for your rights. He kept persuading you. He kept wanting to touch, kiss you and continue making out with you. But you said, "No, I don't want to." Alas, when you didn't want to make out with him anymore, he stopped contacting you.

Girls, if you're in this situation, please, open up your eyes real big. This type of guy is just using you. He's not what you think he is. He is just going out with you to satisfy 'his needs'. And just because he's 'oh-so cute', 'oh-so handsome', oh-so whatever you call it, you can easily 'sell yourself'. Try to control. Some guys are just using their good-looking charm to get what they want. We girls are not stupid. We must stand up for our rights and most of all, we're not cheap.




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