Saturday, February 13, 2010

Boy/girl Bestfriends. #2

Well, you have a bestfriend of the opposite gender. In this case, you guys are just bestfriends and do not have feelings for each other. You guys are really close but really, during that point of time, both of you do not have the 'thing' for one another. Whenever people asked 'Are you guys together?', you guys will reply 'No, we're just bestfriends' and it's the truth, right? But people just brushed it off and still insists of having the mindset of you being a couple. People think both of you have feelings for each other just because you're close.

Ever been in this situation before? Having a bestfriend of the opposite gender is good, because you'll know more about the opposite gender.

Don't you hate it when the both of you are really bestfriends and people assume that the both of you are couples? Doesn't mean that the both of you are close, there must be something going on with the both of you. But really, it's up to them. There's nothing you guys can do about it. You've explained, but they're just too stubborn.

Another bad thing is you'll not be close as before when one of you is attached. Because why? Your partner will get jealous. If you're as close as before, your parnter will get mad. "Why are you always with him/her?! You have feelings for him/her?!" See, this could even lead to misunderstanding.

There's many badpoints of having a bestfriend of the opposite gender. You just have to risk alot of things. But don't be disheartened. If both of you really treasure your friendship, find ways to solve your problems. Appreciate your bestfriends more and treat them nice because you'll never know when he/she might leave.

So, what's your say?




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