Saturday, February 13, 2010

Boy/Girl Bestfriend.

You have a bestfriend of the opposite gender. You guys are very close, sharing secrets and such, but you never thought things would go different. As time pasts by, you realised ; You have feelings for him/her. And he/she felt the same way too.

But, both of you thought that it is impossible to be with each other. Cause, both of you started as bestfriends. Won't it be weird if both of you ended up as a couple?

When you're bestfriends with each other :

1) You tend to talk using harsh words with each other.

- Eh! Why are you acting like an idiot today?!

2) You tend to joke in a harsh way with each other.

- Hey! What the hell is wrong with you?!

When you're with each other (Couple) :

1) You talk using the most appropiate words you can think off with each other. Try talking using harsh words. See the outcome you will receive.

- B! Why are you acting as stupid as an innocent baby? Trying to be funny huh? Hehehe.

2) You tend to joke with each other, but not in a harsh way.

- B! Don't let me bite you! Stop teasing me!

See the difference?

We have an experience that ever happened to one of us before. Here it goes ...

We both started as a normal friends. As time goes by, we became closer and we decided to be bestfriends with each other. We feel very comfortable confiding to each other, share secrets with each other, and much more.

Till one day, both of us realised that we have feelings for each other. But, it's impossible for us to be with each other. Whenever im attached, he's single, and vice versa. We kept the feelings for each other for about nearly a year plus. After waiting for so long, we finally got together, but ...

Before getting attached, one particular incident took place. I went Karaoke-ing with him and my girlfriend. It won't be fun if we don't drink. So, my girlfriend ordered one big jar. Drink, sing, and at last, im drunk. In between of the Karaoke-ing session, bestfriend asked me to accompany him to go smoke. So, i followed him. (Once you're drunk, everything that came out from your mouth is true, or you don't even realized what you're talking about.)

When we're smoking, he asked me why im sad and stuffs. So, i answered him everything. I told him that i love him and stuffs, and im sad that we can't be together and blablabla.

Bestfriend send me home and guess what? He asked me to be his girlfriend, and i accepted him. But sadly, our relationship lasted for only 3 days.

It's kinda awkward and weird. I don't know why, but i just find that funny how you tend to fall for your own bestfriend. Many people say: 'There will be no bestfriend between a girl and a boy because in between, one of them will tend to fall in love with him/her or even, they'll fall for each other.'

Maybe this statement is right? We don't know. So, what's your say?




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