Sunday, February 14, 2010

"I Love You" Huh? But why? We haven't even meet each other!

"This is so weird and so wrong! How can he/she loves me when we haven't even meet? I bet he/she is trying to play around. Yes, he/she is!"

Ever came across with someone who has this 'disease'? Well, not literally a disease. We have got no idea on what word to use. Hehe.

Honestly, the both of us has ever came across with this 'disease'. Knew each other from the Internet, contact through either MSN/phone, never ever meet each other, and end up, have feelings for each other.

If you've ever gone through with this 'disease' before, raise your hands up high. Yes, you might caught yourself laughing while reading. Maybe you would even thought how stupid you are to like each other when the both of you haven't even meet. There's nothing to be stupid about cause ...

If you ask us, it's nothing wrong to do so. Why? We will tell you why.

You have feelings for each other when you've never meet each other before (not even seeing their pictures). What does this means? This means that you've fallen for each other's attitude/personality, and not for their looks. There must be really something in him/her that made you fall for them. Agree?

Developing feelings for one another before and after meeting is a two different things.

Before:

You definitely have no idea how the person looks like. But nevertheless, you still wanted to keep in contact with him/her. The both of you kept in contact through MSN/phone for about 3 months. And after 3 months, you both like each other, and confessed to each other.

Definition:

This means that you've fallen for each other's attitude/personality. Yes, you know that you haven't meet them. But, you don't simply care. Cause, there must be really something in them that made you fall for them.

After:

You knew how the person looks like. And because of you knew how the person looks like, you wanted to keep in contact with them. Even before 3 months takes place, you already have feelings for them.

Definition:

This mean that you've fallen for each other's charming/gorgeous looks, and not because of their charming/gorgeous attitude/personallity. Cause, it's their looks that caught your eyes first. and then followed by their attitude/personallity.

Agree?

Whatever it is, we still don't find it wrong for someone to have feelings for each when the both of them haven't meet up. Although for some who might find it weird and so wrong, trust us, we have friends who are into this 'disease', and shockingly, after they met, they live happily ever after.

So, what's your say?




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