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Wednesday, February 24, 2010
One-sided feelings. - Topic suggestion by Sha. Ouch. One-sided feelings really hurts. Have you readers came across with this situation? You definitely have feelings for that someone but that someone doesn't feels the same way to you? You really love that someone and that someone loves someone else? Or you're hoping to have a relationship with that someone but that someone treats you only as a friend? "Nothing hurts more than realizing he/she meant everything to you but you mean nothing to him/her." Believe it or not, one-sided feelings happens to almost everybody. And it is sure very painful. It can even feel like torture. But readers, don't worry. As for today's post, we're going to provide you with tips on how to deal with one-sided feelings. 1. Limit the amount of time you spend with the person who doesn't love you. It will be better if you don't meet them for a while. 2. Come to terms with the fact that they don't share your romantic feelings. You have to accept the fact that the both of you are not meant to be with each other so you can move on with your own life. 3. Try writing words of motivation such as "I wasted my time liking/loving you. It's time to move on" on a slip of paper and placing it in your jacket/under your pillow. Every time you reach into your pocket/under your blanket, recite the words in your mind, and put it back to its original place. By doing this, it will give you motivation to getting on with the rest of your life. 4. Keep yourself busy. Take up a new hobby such as singing/acting/dancing. Join a sports team or work your frustrations out through exercise. Find things you enjoy doing and commit yourself to it. Both your body and heart will feel better. 5. Surround yourself with those who do love you. Don't be ashame to ask them for advice/opinions. 6. Spend time with those who can make you happy. Chances are, at least one of your friends is brilliant at getting your mind off of the person who's causing you pain. Let them help you not take life too seriously. 7. Take some time each day to focus on a few of your good qualities. Remind yourself that you're a great person even if someone out there doesn't like you. Think about what other qualities you'd like to have, and set some goals about attaining them. 8. Remind yourself that it would not be any fun to be with someone who doesn't want to reply back to your feelings towards them. Think about what love should be like and how equality plays a big part. You deserve to be treated the way you want to be treated. 9. Remember another emotionally difficult situation you've been through and how you got through it. Use some of the strategies you used in that situation to help you heal from this heartbreak. 10. Give your time to accept the fact that he/she doesn't feel the same way towards you. 11. When you're ready, start going out with other people you'd consider dating. Give yourself the chance to fall in love again and you undoubtedly will. Like how Keri Hilson said in her song Knock You Down, "Sometimes love comes around and it knocks you down just get back up when it knocks you down" that's what exactly you need to do. No use dwelling about it because it takes two hands to clap. Don't be sad if he/she refused to reply back to your feelings. You deserve someone much more better. Don't waste your time liking/loving someone you know won't be a part of you. |
We know we've been MIA for quite some time now but to let you guys know ... WE'RE BACK! We'll be posting as much as we can like last time. We would like to extend our apologies to our dear readers for leaving dust in this blog. Fret not, No-Controversy has returned!
We're back with a new concept too! Back with fresher and juicier topics/stories. We shall be more open about everything, and shall not focus on 'Love' alone. Touching too much about 'Love' might affects those who are single, get some readers irritated, and some might even feel bored and dull. Our most essential aim and focus of this blog - We don’t condemn, we don't discriminate, we don’t judge, we don’t hate. We are just being open-minded, and not narrow-minded. We update and share things about what is actually happening around us, and maybe some of you are not aware of it. We will remain anonymous for reasons that must be remain private. We do not ripped from any other blogs. This is originally from our own effort. This blog was created quite a long time ago. But, we just started active recently. We really do hope to get supports from you readers.
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