Monday, February 1, 2010
Single. We're single, and we're proud of it. Eventhough there will be times that we tend to be bored or lonely, we're better off being single. There is lots of things that can be done when you are single. 1. You are free to be friends with anybody, and nobody has the right to stop you from doing so. 2. There is no need for you to report strengths to your girlfriend/boyfriend. - (Dear, im with my camp mates now. We're heading towards Town later.) - (B, im going Bugis with Mama. She wants me to accompany her.) 3. You are free to do whatever you want without anybody trying to stop you. - (Going home late.) - (You can wear whatever you want.) It's totally annoying when everytime you quarrel with your girlfriend/boyfriend just because of you can't contact your own girl/boy friends. Is it a must to report everything to your boyfriend/girlfriend? (I bet your prepaid value always runs out fast or your bill is extremely high just because of this.) And it's totally irritating if you can only go home late at night when you are with them, and not your friends. How about if they demanded you not to wear clothes that will reveal your body? Suffocated much, right? Ever been in this situation before? Felt like kicking/punching your partner? Felt like shouting straight to his/her face for controlling you way too much? Felt like running away from him/her? Well, one of us have came across with this situation before. The guy was way too controlling. Since she can't take it anymore, the broke up in the end. Here it goes ... Well, our purpose for bringing out this topic is to share with you readers why being single is better off than getting attached. 1. You have to go through of the process of "knowing each other first". 2. You have to go through the process of "developing feelings for each other". 3. You have to go through the process of "meeting his family/friends/relatives". Are you aware that you need and you are going over the same process? Don't you readers get sick and tired of it? Being single means freedom! No one to control you! If you're attached .. 1. Quarrels with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Arguments, fights, quarrels! You can even argue over the smallest thing. 2. Jealousy. This is a bad disease. Well, not literally a disease. But you get the point. Jealousy will lead to point number 1. 3. You can't take a good look at people. Wow, there's this cute guy/girl infront of me! But sadly, i can't look for long. I'll get a scolding by my partner if he/she finds out. 4. You tend to prioritise him/her more than your friends/family/relatives. You somehow didn't realize this, but people around you will. To those who're attached, don't ever ever neglect your friends. Honestly, it's super irritating to always be with your partner. Agree? And more. I'm sure you readers have a picture of what I'm trying to say. (; And yes, we admit, BEING SINGLE IS A BORE. No one to pamper around with. But in teenage life, no boyfriend/girlfriend won't die right? We have a friend who's never been attached at all but she's pretty. She told us, ''This boyfriend girlfriend thingy ain't important at all.'' Who says we can't live without a partner in teenage life? There's such thing as mingling around. Hehehe. But don't mingle too much or else people will call you a flirt for no apparent reason. So all the single ladies/gentlemen, brace yourself up! Being single can be great, too! So stop having the mindset of having the need to have a boyfriend/girlfriend! So, what's your say? |
We know we've been MIA for quite some time now but to let you guys know ... WE'RE BACK! We'll be posting as much as we can like last time. We would like to extend our apologies to our dear readers for leaving dust in this blog. Fret not, No-Controversy has returned!
We're back with a new concept too! Back with fresher and juicier topics/stories. We shall be more open about everything, and shall not focus on 'Love' alone. Touching too much about 'Love' might affects those who are single, get some readers irritated, and some might even feel bored and dull. Our most essential aim and focus of this blog - We don’t condemn, we don't discriminate, we don’t judge, we don’t hate. We are just being open-minded, and not narrow-minded. We update and share things about what is actually happening around us, and maybe some of you are not aware of it. We will remain anonymous for reasons that must be remain private. We do not ripped from any other blogs. This is originally from our own effort. This blog was created quite a long time ago. But, we just started active recently. We really do hope to get supports from you readers.
Readers are welcome to share any experience(s) with us. You can do so to the e-mail address provided. We do not give out your personal details unnecessarily. Your identity will be confidential and will not be revealed.
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