Sunday, March 7, 2010

Accept me for who i am.
Topic suggestion by F.K.

"Love me without fear. Trust me without questioning. Need me without demanding. Want me without restrictions. Accept me without change. Desire me without inhibitions. And LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM."

Ever been in this situation before? Somebody wants to be with you just because of your status and not because of loving you? Or worst, they're with you and they demand you to change? It's sure so frustrating right?

"How can that person be with you when they have no feelings for you? How can he/she expect me to change when im already born to be like this?"

Demanding someone to change or being with someone without loving them has the same meaning as you're forcing yourself to love them without sincerity. You are actually suffering from a killer one-sided feelings and there isn't much you can do to change it into relationship. YOU CAN'T FORCE YOURSELF TO LOVE SOMEBODY. YOU CAN'T EVEN MAKE YOURSELF LIKE SOMEBODY. So, why bother in asking them to change or even being with them knowing you have no feelings for them?

You know that person isn't really into you when they demand you to change. If that person really loves you, he will accept you for who you are no matter what. And if that person isn't in love with you, he will only accept you for what you are.

What to do when you're in this kind of situation? Easy. Just leave him/her because there's plenty of guys/girls out there who's willing to accept you for who you are.




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