Sunday, March 7, 2010

Girls who are after boys.
-Topic suggestion by Lyna.

The trend now is changing. Girls ask boys for numbers/MSN, girls ask boys out and the even crucial part, girls are asking boys for a stead. But question is. Is it wrong for us, girls, to do so?

We have two different perspective and it's up to you readers to judge. Here it goes ...

1st:

My girl-friend, 'A', admired this particular guy. That guy was apparently her classmate at that point of time. She tried all means to get his MSN. They soon chatted and 'A' asked for his number, giving excuses that she needed his number in case she needed help in homework. After they had been contacting for quite awhile, ''A' wanted to try her luck. She asked 'Can i be your girlfriend?' And yes, the guy accepted. Because deep inside, that guy actually has feelings for her but was afraid to woo her instead. In this scenario, it's better for girls to make the first move. If she were to wait, how long will it takes? Sometimes patience has its limit.


2nd:

This girl saw a cuteeee guy across them.


Girl 1: He's such a cutie!

Girl 2: Agreed! You want his number?
Girl 1: If you insist.

And there goes the Girl 2, asking the guy for his number.

Girl 2: Err, hie? My friend asked for your number.

The guy: (Stared at her and walked away without saying a word.)

And he later tells his friends..


"WTF?! There's a girl asking for my number just now. Desperate or what? Such a shameless girl!''


Oopps. There he goes. Feeling unsatisfied because a girl asked for his number. Because why? Certain guys just dislike it when it happens. Some guys just dislike it when the girl seemed desperate.

So, is it wrong for girls to chase after boys? Apparently, it all depends on who the boy you're chasing. If they're the type who'd prefer them making the first move, then the answer is clearly proven ; it is wrong. But if the boy you're chasing is the quiet shy type of guy, then by you making the first move helps alot.

So, what's your say?




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