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Sunday, March 7, 2010
Healthy Relationship. Topic suggestion by 'Sharea. Nobody wants to be in a bad relationship. Creating a healthy relationship takes one step at a time. Whether the two of you are on the verge of breaking up, or if you just feel something is amiss and needs to be looked at further, the words that follow are meant to get you out of your rut and have you enjoying your relationship again. 1. Determine what's going on. - Only a few people can explain what's wrong with their relationship. They can explain in great detail what has happened, and who has done what to whom however! But hashing out the details doesn't move your relationship forward. You need to diagnose the problem so as to troubleshoot, accept responsibility, and fix it. 2. Accept responsibility. - Bad relationships don't just happen. Like healthy relationship, bad relationships are born, fed and nurtured into becoming what they are. Therefore, in order to fix a bad relationship, you must first look at how you've contributed to the problem as well as accept responsibility for your actions, intentional or otherwise. 3. Erase self-sabotaging behaviours. - Everyone has self-sabotaging behaviours. Whether or not your relationship succeeds depends on how well you are able to identify them, review the reasoning behind them, and conquer them. And creating a healthy relationship is dependent on you outlining these destructive behaviours with the intent of demolishing them. 4. Adopt new relationship rules. - Your next step is to replace these defeatist actions and thoughts with positive, self-supporting and healthy rules to enable the kind of relationship you've always wanted. 5. Mold a healthy relationship. - Moving to this stage of the relationship healing process means you've adopted some new ways of thinking, being and doing, and are now ready to start putting your work into action. It also means finally taking stock of both you and your partner, and what each of you needs and wants in a healthy relationship. 6. Reconnect lovingly. - It's time to reconnect with your partner. No more keeping things inside your heart. The insight you've gained will now be put to work to help both of you get what you need and want in your relationship. That being said, this last step definitely isn't easy, and it takes a considerable amount of time. But if you truly do want a healthy relationship with your partner, this last step is essential to ensuring success. Healing your relationship means that you will have to review how you've contributed to the problem and what you need to do to fix it. Not what the two of you need to do, or even what your partner should do. Essentially, fixing a bad relationship means reconnecting with yourself. |
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