Wednesday, March 3, 2010

How to stop enemies who talks bad behind your back?
Topic suggestion by Lyna.

Enemy. I'm sure all of us have had enemies in our life before. No matter how hard we try not to have enemies, we'll still have them. But reality check. Can we really stop them from talking bad behind our back? Truthfully, we can't. All we have to do is - ignore. The more we try to stop them, the more they'll talk about you.

Based on my experience, I do have enemy. And honestly, that enemy of mine was once my best friend. You saw it. Best friend. Why we became enemies? We've had a huge quarrel, reasons must be kept private, and none of us wanted to give in. And till today, we've not spoken to each other. This enemy of mine spread bad rumours about me, bastard me during class, being sarcastic when I'm near her, and more. During the first few days I've quarrelled with her, me, being stupid, did the same towards her. The result? It made both of us hated each other more and the cycle didn't stop.

So what can we infer from my experience? The more you add fuel into the fire, the more you'll worsen the conflict. It's better if we'd just ignore. Let your enemies do whatever they want. Simply, just act as if they didn't exist. Just be cool with it. Matured people don't react harshly. You're a somebody when they keep talking about you. They just don't have any other topic to talk about except for you. Remember, I - G - N- O - R -E. :)




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