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1. Mr Playboy flirts with you directly even without knowing you that well. Watch out! This is a warning signal. Don't ever fall in love with this type of guy. He is flirting with you for fun and not for a serious relationship. You are just someone whom he flirts with to pass his time.

2. If you're shy and trying to play 'hard to get', Mr Playboy uses lines for you. Some common examples of the lines he can use are: Don't be like this. I love you. Nevermind. I know where i stand. Any boys using such words for you without even knowing you well can be said desperate to win your heart for the time being.

3. Without knowing you well, Mr Playboy immediately calls you 'Baby', 'Honey; and so on. Halt! Don't ever ever fall into his clutches. He may be calling these names to other girls, too.

4. Mr Playboy keeps praising your beauty and personality. Jangan sesekali pikir yang he is in love with you. It is basically a sign that he is infatuated with you for only a short time. 'You, you pretty, cute, nice, and caring. It's such a waste if i didn't get the chance to be with you.'

5. He doesn't message/chat with you often and only do so when he's bored. Possibilities are that he has many girls by his side and suddenly think of you when he simply have nothing to do.

6. He has many female friends. Bare in mind, not all guys who have a lot of female friends are Mr Playboy. He may just be friendly but a Mr Playboy will go to the extent of flirting with the girls even though he is attached.

7. When you're with him, his handphone is set to silent mode or better still, switch it off. When you asked why, he simply said that he wanted to spend time with you without having any disturbance. It may be true but you wouldn't know he's hiding something from you.

8. Some Mr Playboy even go to the extent of having two handphone numbers. When you went out with him, you decided to check his handphone and your heart was set at ease when you realised he didn't hide anything from you. You wanted to check his other handphone but he refused to give it to you, giving excuses like, "My other handphone is spoilt. You already take a look at my another handphone. Im not hiding anything from you." But truthfully, he did hide something from you. You wouldn't know if he kept all the girls number in that particular handphone which he refused to give it you.

9. If you knew this Mr Playboy from a social net-working website such as Tagged, then check out his profile. How many comments did he reply/give to other girls? Notice the way he reply to them. If you're unlucky and you somehow saw a comment such as, "I miss you! I had fun chatting with you yesterday" and such from many girls, just beware.

10. Most Mr Playboy does not introduce you to his friends. Because why? His friends may accidentally or even purposely leak his secrets to you and he's afraid it would happen.

11. He’s too smooth. Does he have an answer for everything? A really good answer for everything? We're not surprised as it comes from years of practice. Mr Playboy has made a lot of mistakes in the past and has plenty of experience. He knows what you want to hear, because he’s learned well from his previous 'victims'.

12. He brainwash you. You saw a comment by a girl who said, "Baby! I had fun playing bowling with you just now." And you wonder who is that particular girl. When you asked him, he simply replied that they're best friends and she likes calling him 'Baby'. You were convinced by his words and you ended up disliking that girl instead.

13. Always busy. Mr Playboy keeps giving you excuses that he's busy until he doesn't have enough time to message/call you. This is bullshit. If you really like/love someone, you can find a minute to at least text them. No one is that busy!

14. They're always so confident that you can just tell they're used to getting what they want when they want it. They are so confident that they can make you fall easily into their clutches.

15. Trust your instincts! If you suspect he is a player or manipulating you, that's nature telling you to get out of a potentially harmful situation.

16. He's good at lying and he'll try to cover his mistakes and make you trust him again when you managed to find out about the mistakes he made.

Well, the answer is clearly proven. Ignore him. Leave him. He's not someone who deserves you. You wouldn't want to continue getting to know this boy and ended up getting hurt, right? Save yourself from the awful heartache. No one wants to get hurt pretty badly. Don't let him conquer your feelings/emotions. Better be safe than sorry. I'm sure the ladies want to get revenge for what the playboy had done to them, but really, let nature takes its course. Don't let Mr Playboy ruin your life.

So, what's your say?