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Sunday, March 7, 2010
Love Triangle. Topic suggestion by F.K. Love triangle almost always implies that the arrangement is unsuitable to one or more of the people involved. One-sided feelings and jealousy are common themes in love triangles. We all think about it in terms of being 'cheated' on but rarely do we worry that we're being 'cheated' with. The reality is that when 'cheating' happens there is always an 'other' person, a 'person' who comes along after-the-fact and helps a 'cheater' to 'cheat'. Be it knowingly or not in order for 'cheating' to happen there has to be this 'third party', this other 'lover'. Sounds very complicated right? Nevermind. We will make things much more simple for you to understand. Love triangle equals to having a third party involved in the relationship you're currently in. This third party can be your ex boyfriend/girlfriend, your friends, or it can be just anybody. How to know if there's a third party in your relationship? 1. He/she only go out with you at weird times of day. (And it's always night time.) - (B, im now busy with work/school stuffs. I will meet you later in the night alright? It will be much more romantic.) 2. He/she switch off his/her phone whenever you are together. - (Him: Eh B! Why did you switched off your handphone? Her: I don't want anybody to disturb because i wanna spend time with only you.) 3. He/she often makes little mistakes or slips of the tongue when it comes to remembering things about you. - (Him: B! Your birthday is coming right? Where shall we go to celebrate? Her: What the hell are you talking about?! My birthday was 4 months back. Are you seeing someone else as well?!) 4. He/she has called you by the name of someone else. - (Him: Yana baby! Her: What B?! Yana?! Since when my mother change my name?! Im Waty lah! Who the hell is Yana?! Him: Really? Did i called you Yana? You heard me wrongly, dear. Since when i called you Yana?) 5. He/she never brings you around his/her friends/family. - (Him: B, when do you wanna bring me to meet your family? Her: Huh? Family? Err, im not ready yet. - (Her: B, can i tag along? I wanna meet your friends too. Him: No need. Just stay at home alright. This is all-guys-day-out. There's no girls at all.) 6. He/she often breaks plans at the last minute with little or no explanation, even plans that you have made well in advance. - (B, we go out another day okay. Mama's sick. She needs my company. Sorry.) 7. He/she is rarely available when you want to meet him/her at the last minute. - (Him: B, jumpa i nanti? I finish work early today. Her: Laaah! Asal you bilang i last minute? I tak free lah. I ada class meeting nanti.) 8. When you unexpectedly bump in to somebody from his/her work or his/her friends, they hide rather than introduce them to you. - (Oh dear! That's my friend! Quick B, be fast! If he/she saw me, he/she will go around asking me lots of question!) 9. He/she seems to have to make excuses for a lot of odd behaviour. Canceling dates, not calling when they say they will, not answering your calls or not being where they say they will be. - (Sorry lah B. I forgot to call you. Im tired. Furthermore, i just booked out. You don't even understand me uh!) Whether you came first or being part of a love triangle is never easy. Only you know what's the best course of action for you. If you're caught yourself in love triangle, just end the relationship and refuse to be with the person again until they are truly free to be with you and only you. Always remember, it takes TWO HANDS to clap. So, what's your say? |
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