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Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Ways to strengthen your bond with your Parents. Nags, nags, and more nags! Parents doesn't fail to nag for almost everyday. One small mistake from you or if things doesn't go with their way, that's it. They're going to nag like that's the end of the world. And the reactions from you? Pissed, stressed, sad, irritated, and much more. Does it feel like you and your parents just can't see eye to eye? Are you always fighting with them about your life? Is all the arguing and butting heads stressing you out? Well, we're going to provide ways to stop all those nagging and argument. Follow these steps to find some peace. 1. List down the things that you and your parents fight about the most. 2. Identify the main problem that gets you so upset or angry. 3. Decide on a FAIR compromise. A resolution that you can live with and that you think your parents will accept. (Compromise equals to you giving up some of your demands. It does not mean that you get your way.) 4. Make an appointment with your parents to sort things out or to share your opinion with them. Don't ever talk about this in between dinner or in any occasions because things might not work. 5. Take a few deep breaths and think about calming thoughts before talking to your parents. Remember to make a promise to yourself that you will not raise your voice or get angry if your parents disagree with you or if they are the ones who raised their voice first. 6. When you've done sharing your opinions with them, avoid shutting down or growing frustrated and avoid interrupting them or jumping in with a rebuttal. Just listen and absorb what they say. 10. If your parents reject your opinion, stay focused and avoid getting emotional. Just express your disappointment that you could not reach a compromise. 11. If they agree with your opinion, be grateful and assure them that you will not let them down. You must also prove to them to that the right decision is going along with you. As a teenager, you are learning to become more independent, and this may be the reason why there is friction in your house. As you and your parents adjust to your new independent self, the fighting will decrease. So, what's your say? |
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