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Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Ways to strengthen your bond with your Siblings. You had probably risk your life to protect them. So why is it so hard to get along with your siblings? While sibling rivalry might always be a mystery, how to improve your relationship with them doesn't have to be. "I always wanted to be close with my siblings. Laugh with them, joke with them, or even go out and spend time with them. But i never once get the chance to do so." We're going to give you the chance to do so. Simply follow all the simple steps and you're on your way in being close with your siblings. 1. Before you act, take deep breaths. - 10 deep breaths are all you need to regain your temper and keep yourself from staying or doing something you will regret. 2. Don't let their words get to you. - They are only words after all. No matter how nasty your siblings is treating you, be the mature one. (Instead of fighting back with more insults, just walk away.) 3. Pick your fights. - Most fights aren't worth fighting. If you think you're wasting your breathe in winning over the childish argument, just stop and save your breath for something more worth. 4. Go to your parents. - Go to them only if it's a SERIOUS problem that you can't solve yourself. Don't approach them in the heat of the fight. Wait for a moment, and if you still want to involve your parents, sit down with them and make your point in a mature, even tone, as if you were an adult too. 5. Give them space. - Living under the same roof as someone can be a big drain, even if you're not related to each other. If you and your sibling want to make it to your college years without going crazy, you will need to take a couple of hours a day to have sibling-free time. If you don't have your own room, then do some of your homework at the library, or find a spot to volunteer at, or go for a jog. And make a pact with your sibling to respect closed doors. 6. Give yourself a break. - There's no use aiming for a perfect relationship with your siblings because perfect relationships with siblings don't exist. Know that it's normal to feel jealous, annoyed or frustrated every once in a while. Cherish the happy times with them, even if they are rare occurrences. Those are the moments that will really stick with you when you're living on your own. Just because you're the younger sibling, it doesn't mean you have to act that way. Always be mature, even if your older siblings aren't. Just because you're the older sibling, it doesn't mean you always know best. Give your younger siblings the same respect you want them to give you. Good luck! |
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