Tuesday, April 20, 2010

10 easy flirt tips.

Yes, we know! This particular topic is indeed very attractive and interesting. But, please take note that this post is meant for those who are still single. So, to those who are attached, if you happened to read this, don't ever betray your boyfriend/girlfriend alright?

Flirting's a language. And just like with any other language, no one's born a fluent flirt. If you want to know how to flirt like a pro, you've got to learn the signs. Follow these flirt tips and practice till you're an expert flirt. And let us repeat this for the very last time, this post is meant for those who are still single.

1. Choose your target.

- You don't have to have a crush on someone in order to flirt. Practice flirting with random people you see every day on order to hone your skills. That way, you will have some flirting experience under your belt when you approach the people who really matter.

2. Have an opening line.

- Find a reason to talk to the person. If you're in a class with them, come up with a question about an assignment. If they're standing in line behind you at a concert, ask about the band. Get creative, and be ready to respond to whatever they say.

3. Make eye contact.

- If you don't make eye contact, you will look bored or uninterested, and that's not an impression you want to give. Too shy to look them right in the eyes? Here's a trick: look at the spot right between their eyes. It will look like eye contact to them.

4. Come up with a compliment.

- Pick one thing you like about the way they look. Let them know in a friendly way how much you like it. It will make them feel good and will open them up to you.

5. Smile.

- So be sure to throw them a smile whenever it makes sense. If they shoot one back, you will know that they like talking to you, too.

6. Flirt with your body.

- The body language you use when you flirt is just as important as what you say. Use good posture, point your body towards the person and try to find excuses to touch them.

7. Keep it light.

- You will get a way better response if you chat about fun, happy stuff than serious or sad stuff. The point of flirting isn't to bare your soul or share your honest opinions about everything. It is to open the door to lots more conversations down the road.

8. Beware of awkward silences.

- Once the convo drags, it is probably gone for good. Fill an awkward silence by asking the other person a question.

9. Wrap it up.

- If you are not interested in talking anymore, politely find an excuse to head off into the sunset. If you are interested, give them a way to get in touch with you. This is just your first convo of many, so save some of that charm for the next time.

10. Practice, practice, and practice!

- No one is perfect at flirting the first time around. If the idea of flirting still gives you butterflies, don't worry. It just means that you need more practice. The more you flirt, the easier it will get.

So, to all the single girls/guys out there, good luck!




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