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Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Attention seekers. - Topic suggestion by Lina. "Guys! Check out my new limited edition Globe shoes. It's darn expensive. It falls on the 'selling fast' items. I bought the last piece! Such a waste if you guys don't buy it!" And there this person goes bragging about his new Globe shoes. Bragging about something you have has the exact same meaning as you're trying to show off. And when you're trying to show off, this also means that you're trying to win attention from other people. Attention seeking behaviors are often associated with childish behavior and or learning disabilities. How to know if that person is an attention seeker? This person constantly does things to get your attention and it can become quite annoying. They will blurt out and tell you what they did or that they have finished doing their work or whatever that's happening in their life. Their desire for attention is almost insatiable. Much of what they do is done to get attention. It doesn't seem to matter that you provide lots of attention as they continually seek more. The 'Attention Seeking' person is in need of more attention than most. They seem to have something to prove and don't take as much pride intrinsically as they do extrinsically. This person may not have a sense of belonging. Try and understand the need, this person may have a LOW SELF-ESTEEM and may need some confidence building. Sometimes the attention seeker is simply just immature. If this is the case, adhere to the interventions below and the person will outgrow the insatiable need for attention. Remember. None of us likes mixing with a bunch of attention seekers. None of us likes being with a bunch of person who likes to show off. Why have the need to show off? Why can't you just keep it to yourself? Also remember that you earn nothing by showing off. Instead, more people will hate being with you, and they will just ignore you because to them, you're just a bunch of people who tries to show off just to get their attention. We're sure you people won't want to get that kind of label. So, stop being an attention seeker, and stop showing off. |
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