Friday, April 16, 2010
Is it wrong to keep in touch with my ex? - Topic suggestion by Airah. You're having a relationship with someone who is insecure about your past. He isn't satisfied with the fact that you're still in contact with your ex. And he expects you to stop contacting your ex. What should you do? Take note about this. When you decided to have a relationship with someone, you have to accept the person for who they are. You can't possibly change them or control their life. You don't even have the right to do all that. The best thing to do is to completely severe ties then try and pick up the friendship pieces later. This may be the best decision for a majority of people. You may find that they’ve met someone new and are happy but you are good with that. Whether you can be friends or not depends on the new man or woman in his or her life. Some people prefer that their partners have no contact with an ex, and some others don’t mind. And you really think of your ex as your friend, you should be happy with whatever is best for him or her and his or her new partner. Whatever it is, if you love your boyfriend/girlfriend, you must learn on how to love their past as well. There's nothing wrong for them to keep in touch with their ex. It's their choice, and not yours. If they know their limits with their ex, we're sure this is absolutely a no problem for the both of you. If you can't accept their past, or you can't accept the fact that they're still in contact with their ex, your boyfriend/girlfriend might not be the right one for you. |
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