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Friday, April 16, 2010
Move on! We're OVER! Period! - Topic suggestion by Ainul. You've decided to end your relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend. Your boyfriend/girlfriend can't accept with the decision you've made, and they decided to take revenge on you just because you're the one who requested for break up. Why can't they let you go? Why must they go to the extand of taking revenge on you? Why must they do all that? There are a few reasons why they tend to take up revenge on you. 1) The way you ended your relationship was wrong. - There's ways if you really wanted a break up. You can't possibly break up with someone in a rude way. You can't use reasons like "Let's end our relationship because i don't need you anymore". 2) You have no good reasons on why you wanted to end your relationship. - "Let's break up. Don't question me. I got no answer to your question." Well, this is exactly the same as "Why you wanted me to be part of your life?" or "Why do you love me?". If you can answer that before getting together, why can't you still do the same when you're no longer together? 3) They just couldn't accept the fact. - Who asked you to promise things such as "Don't leave me" or "Only death will seperate us apart"? Why promise such things when you know you can't make it through with him/her? The reason why they take revenge on you is because they thought that they've been cheated. You promised them such things and in the end, you just can't fulfilled your promises. Make this a lesson learnt. 4) They are obsessed with you. - Oh my. Maybe they're sick or maybe they're really sick. We know you love your boyfriend/girlfriend. But this doesn't mean you have to get so obsessive. Bear in mind that they're just your boyfriend/girlfriend. Even if they are your husband/wife, you have no right to get so obsessive. Accept the fact that they absolutely have no more feelings for you. You can't force someone to love you right? You must learn to respect people's decisions. Don't dwell about this and don't even think about seeking revenge. When he/she decides to end the relationship, just accept it although it's hard. Move on slowly. And don't move on without having the intention of 'seeking revenge'. There's plenty of guys/girls out there. Show them you can move on with somebody else without the intention of 'seeking revenge'. Don't waste your time with this children games. You earn nothing by doing so. |
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