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Monday, April 26, 2010
Confused with guys. The above title says it all. No matter how hard we tried our best to understand guys nowadays, there is always a part that we are still confused with them, and not knowing what they really want from us, girls. Curious with everything that i've just say? Wanna know why? Here it goes ... Im blessed with a loving boyfriend. So far, we have absolutely no problem at all. Except for stupid little arguments and fights somewhere along the way. Since he is still in NS, he is being flexible with me. Now, what do i mean by flexible? (Take note that im not bragging or showing off about how good my boyfriend is. Im just sharing my experience with everyone.) First of all, he gives me freedom. He allows me to go out with anybody. Be it a guy or a girl. But of course, with his knowledge and permission first. And lastly, he doesn't control me. He allows me to go anywhere i want with my friends of different gender without the need to 'report strengths' each and every minute. A simple text message that contains of 'who i'll be going out with', 'where i'll be heading to', and 'what time i'll be reaching home' will do. Being given that kind of freedom from him, i have to make use of the trust given so that no misunderstanding will occur. Never have i thought to betray him since he allows me to go out with my guy friends. Most of my guy friends that im in contact with knows that im attached, and most of them knows him. So yeap. I called up my boyfriend and told him that im meeting this guy friend of mine at my area. He gave me the green light, and as usual, he reminds me the same thing over and over again. "Know your limits. Don't ever do anything stupid behind my back. Take very good care of yourself." I swear, i can now memorize that particular sentence and i can even say it together with him whenever he wants to remind me. (Lets use 'Boy' for this particular guy's name.) After the conversation ends, my boyfriend went to sleep whereas i went down to meet Boy. My overall comments for Boy? Well, he looks like one of the typical Malay Mats who likes to wear Topman's V-neck shirt with short pants and slippers to go along with. I met him at 2 AM sharp. First few minutes of our conversation was kinda okay. He told me about his work and about his personal matters. Well, that's the common topic for first meet-up session. While in the middle of the conversation, he started to seat closer to me. I stood up from my seat, and pretended that i wanna stretch my body. He voiced out his opinion and told me that i was uncomfortable with him (which i was) and asked me if i wanna chill at different place instead of my void deck. I asked him where and he suggested the carpark's rooftop. The moment he told me that, i already knew what intention was he bringing together with him to meet me. I told him that the rooftop was quite haunted and i was quite afraid and it will be more comfortable if we just stay under my void deck. Then, he asked me about my relationship status and i told him i was attached. You guys should see the reaction from his face. He was shocked. (Below is the conversation between me and him after i told him that im attached.) Him: So i got no chance to make-out with you. Only your boyfriend could give you that. Me: Even if he wants to give me, i don't want. Him: Why? You will miss the pleasure that girls gets from their boyfriend. Me: I know. But sorry, im not like those types. Him: You can say that now. Lets see later. I intefered the conversation by pretending to answer a phone call. After i 'ended' the phone call, i went back to him. And he continued his conversation. Him: You feel restricted to do anything with any guy because you're attached? Me: What anything? Him: Those hanky-panky stuffs? That was rude of him saying such things to me. I replied him by giving him my fake smile. Since i refused to 'entertain' him, he decided to go home. It was not even an hour the moment he wanted to leave. The next day, i called up my boyfriend and shared about what happen to him. He laughed so hard and even told me that he was suprised guys like Boy still exist in this world. Already get my whole point? Confusing isn't it? Where's all the Gentleman gone to? *Shakes head* So, what's your say? |
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