Being a plus-size, is that really an issue to you?
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Insults are never easy to take. Whether representing truth or not, insults are purposely said to demean a character and put a person down. Too often, people try to be nice and maintain good relationships with people in an attempt to avoid insults. But that in fact is a futile attempt. The truth is, you can’t pass this life without hearing a single word of insult. Always, people will find something bad about you and throw an insult at you. But while you can’t prevent people from making insulting remarks about you, you can do something to lessen the impact of the offense.

What's wrong about being a plus-size? Lots of people often looked down on them just because they are fat. Is there really something wrong with them or is there something wrong with you? We're sure that all of us here did went to school and is very well educated with good knowledge. And we're sure that school did taught us on how to have respect for each other. If you claim that you're very well educated just because of you went to school and they taught you on how to have respect for others, why still looked down on plus-size people?

Or, are you just jealous that they are plus-size and you are not one of them and that's why there's a need to insult them? If you're mature enough to think and act, there's no need for you to look down on plus-size people because basically, they are normal human beings like you and they are borned with feelings like you too. Put yourself in their shoes, what will you feel?

Keep in mind that insults are uttered usually out of an emotional outburst. Most of the time, insults are said out of extreme anger or other intense emotions. It is safe to say, therefore, that some insults are purely slip of the tongue. If you happen to receive this type of insult, it is best to pay no attention. If, however, the insults have some allusion to the truth, take them constructively. It can be pretty hard because the way insults are said and worded is not meant to build a person, but there’s no harm in taking something good from something as bad as an insult.

Now, i've got a confession to make. Im a plus-size, and im so proud of it. I have my family, my boyfriend, and a couple of true friends who loves me for who i am. Yes, people might have once insult me about my body. But, i never take those words seriously. Instead, i proved them wrong by showing them what im capable of doing and makes sure they can't do the same thing.

To those who are currently suffering from this situation, have confidence in yourself. Let people say whatever thay wanna say about you. We can't shut their mouth up or stop them from saying so. Once they are tired, they will stop doing so because according to their mindset, you really never care about their words that was supposed to pull you down.

Simply ignore them and don't give them your time to entertain all their insults. Im a plus-size, and im proud of it. :)