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Friday, June 11, 2010
Is your girlfriend using you? - Topic suggestion by Ps. Whether you agree to this or not, using somebody equals to cheating. Finding out that a girlfriend has cheated on you is never an easy thing to deal with. Feelings get hurt and tempers often run high. Being cheated on is not an easy thing to get over, however some couples do and they learn from their mistakes. Cheating happens to the best of us. Even if it hasn't happened to you, you might be wondering if your girlfriend or even your boyfriend is about to cheat. Here are some thoughts on cheating and some clues that the person you're with may not be totally faithful. First of all, try not to panic. Sometimes a fear that your girlfriend is cheating is actually your own insecurity about the relationship or just yourself. Ask this to yourself, "If she loves me, why would she cheat? What's her motive of making use of me?" Take some time to think about these things before trying to figure out if your girlfriend has been unfaithful. 1) Being overly defensive. - Sometimes cheating partners will take out their anger and frustration on the person they are being unfaithful to. Be aware of when your girlfriend starts to pick fights with you, or accuses you of strange behaviors from out of the blue to deflect their own actions. 2) Hiding behaviours. - Frequent phone hang-ups, or quickly keeping her handphone when she's halfway messaging somebody when you walk by may all be signs of a cheating partner. 3) Sudden unavailability. - If you've been able to get a hold of your girlfriend when you're in camp serving NS or Reservist or whatever before, then if you suddenly cannot, there is reason to be concerned. The same goes for having their phone off for long periods of time or leaving it unanswered when this previously happened rarely, or being unavailable to attend social events or make dates that were commonplace at one point in time. Are they showing you these 3 signs? If they do, higher chances that they're just making use of you. Maybe letting you be one of their pass time, or perhaps they are just after your money. If you're still unsure about this, sit down and talk with your girlfriend before jumping to any conclusions. So, what's your say? |
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