Sunday, January 23, 2011

Ways to be a better partner in a relationship.

Have your heard your exes say that you're a lousy boyfriend/girlfriend? Perhaps the guy/girl you are currently dating has been complaining about your relationship? Do you feel that your guy/girl is always screaming at you with frustration? Here are some tips that you may want to consider in helping you become better in handling your relationships.

1. Communicate properly.
  • Most girls say that they have trouble communicating with their boyfriend. Don't be like other guys who refuse and avoid talking to their girlfriends about problems haunting the relationship. Do not hesitate in telling your girlfriend anything that bothers you. Remember to answer when your girlfriend asks a question. Don't just nod or shake your head. Say something. Talk! It is important for you to voice out your thoughts and feelings to your special someone.
2. Pay attention.
  • Listen to what your partner is saying. Pay attention to everything he/she says including those that may seem too trivial for you. Girls love it when guys are able to recall details of what they said, and guys love it when girls are able to listen to their conversation even without saying a word.
3. Be lavish with compliments.
  • Say something nice every time you see your partner. Comment on his/her choice of clothes, or shoes. Let your partner know that you approve of what he/she has done for you. Be generous with your compliments.
4. Be patient.
  • There is no need for you to snap at your partner over petty things. Make sure not to raise your voice at him/her for coming in late or for misplacing your things. Do not walk out or leave your guy/girl alone when you two are in the middle of a heated argument. Make sure that you stay cool regardless of how irritated you are with your partner. Just keep in mind that your partner are basically difficult creatures to deal with, and you just need to be patient for the relationship to work.
5. Keep your promises.
  • Remember that promises are not made to be broken. If you promised to take your partner to the movies this Saturday, then you should take him/her to the movies this Saturday. Do not forget the commitments that you made to your partner. Call at the time you said you would, and take him/her out on a date as you said you would. Only make promises you can keep.
6. Make time.
  • Girls just hate it when their boyfriend seem to never make time for them. Being very busy is not an excuse for not seeing your girlfriend. You can't always be too tired to go out. Same goes out to girls. If you can spend one whole day going out shopping with your girlfriends, we don't get it why you can't make time for your boyfriend.
Making a relationship work is never easy. There will always be conflicts, and misunderstandings between you and your partner. But this doesn't mean that you should give up, and accept that you're just not cut to be in a relationship for long. It's never too late to be a better partner in a relationship. Good luck!
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