Saturday, January 22, 2011

How to present yourself on a date?

Going out for your very first date? Going out for a date with your boyfriend/girlfriend but feel like changing your way like how you used to date? In a confusion state and don't know how to react? Fret not, we're here to help our dear readers.

A lasting relationship must always start somewhere, and it rarely comes to anything if at the start ot the first date both parties have already created a bad impression. There a certain rules to follow in order to make things happen.

  • For the guys, it pays to be a gentleman. No girls can resist the charms of a guy who goes all out with chivalry. You must open her car door (if you own a car), secure her helmet for her (if you own a bike), assist her to her seat, and always take the outer side of sidewalk when planning a nice stroll. However, do not go overboard with it as some girls appreciate being independent as well. Too much gentlemanly moves can sometimes smother her.
  • Listening is always a key factor. Both of you should take turns to keep quiet in order to listen while the other is talking, whether the talk is centered on the mundane or on life-changing experiences.
  • For the girls, being a lady shows that you also want his respect. Give him your full attention, but not too much. Don't let him see that you are desperate or an easy catch. A respectable balance of clothes and show of flesh creates the impression that you are playful but not easy.
  • Keep the mood light and easy. Stick to neutral and more fun topics for discussions.
  • Be interested and don’t fidget. Looking at one’s watch is not a good sign for any date. It immediately signals the end of any desire to get to know your date further.
  • Please don’t fight over the bill. In this modern world, the arrival of the bill can trigger a lot of interesting scenarios. Rather than assuming your date would prefer to be: (a) treated like a princess (you pay) or (b) treated like an equal (you split), you can get it out of the way by asking for her preference politely. But make sure that your tone suggests that you prefer to treat her like a princess.
  • Last, and most of all, the couple should enjoy the planned date together. One should put aside any worry and just enjoy without thinking about whether this is going to end up well, or not end up well at all. At the end of the date, the most important thing is that both shared a mutually good time together.
Today is an age wherein biases are down, individualities are celebrated, and being informally happy is the key to just let dates be more fun. So who knows, what inspires one may be quickly caught on with the other, thus setting the stage for the second date. Good luck!
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